Hi I'm AJ.  Single 40 year old mum of 4. Happy with life.  I love to learn new things and meet new people. I have very special friends  - but there are one or two that are exceptional.​

You need not be there
for I can see you
You need not speak
for I can hear you
You need not worry
for I can cope
You need only know
that I love you......                             
                                                            
                    (* " " *)            GIVE SOMEONE A HUG
                    (='o'= )
               ​(,,)  ,,  ´,, (,,)            TODAY !!!!!!
                    (          )
                   (,,)^(,,)

MY HEART IS VERY MUCH TAKEN.

If your gonna do the right thing by me, I will be a very loyal friend.
Hi - to all my wonderful true friends!!!!!​­!!

My bigger kids are getting lives of their own.  Thank god. lol.

If I ever dissapear during a chat it's prob because one of the little ones has spilt something in the dvd player or they have broken my fine china or are fighting or something...​... lol.  So be patient I will return.

If I'm not around for a while don't worry I am just tending to my life :) Or working out :P

Hey guys I dont take kindly to filth talk and lude comments -  you will be ignored.  HERE FOR FRIENDSHIP OR CANT YOU READ.

Men are such funny creatures lol.

Some German definately not fluent.   Online translator tools suck!  They can get you into all sorts of trouble.

Ask :)

Anything with Bass lol.

Most of the ones I have watched which is a lot :)

Ncis and Burn Notice.

Who needs books I have Internet  ;)

The world was created when God threw his garbage out of his car window and it collided with a bike cop  ;)

Humility is about living and learning and accepting defeat.

Religion is the root of all of humanities problems.

If you toss your eggs into one basket...doe​s that make you a tosser????? lol.

Im not a ****-magnet  - so stay away from my fridge.

The only good man is one you can't forget.

You think your "special"​­ your probably right (think about it lol)

Regrets are good cause you made choices, no ones perfect.

People that use their experiences to hurt others haven't learnt anything at all.

Laughter can fill the soul with happiness and mend a broken heart, but, a  true friend can also do this with kind word's and their presence. (for all my true friends).

(THE TRUE MEANING OF FRIENDSHIP)
ATrue friend will never give up because of a fight, strange behaviour or unkind words.  A True friend, will  remain friends till the very end.  They are silent, but there.



Humbling one's self to apologise to a friend, even when you can't see the error, makes the world a much better place.

Men I can't live with them and....... I CANT LIVE WITH THEM LOL. HEHE.

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND KEEP YOUR MIND OPEN TO YOUR INDIVIDUALIT​Y, YOUR IGNORANCE AND YOUR ABILITY TO LEARN TO THINK FOR YOURSELF.  EXPERIENCE IS THE VITAL SOURCE OF ACHIEVEMENT,​ EITHER THE EMBRACING OF IT OR THE CLOSURE OF IT.  LISTEN TO YOUR INNER-SELF BE IT GOOD OR BAD AND READ IT LISTEN AND LEARN.  DO NOT PUSH ANYTHING AWAY THAT MAKES SENSE TO YOURSELF THAT WILL BE YOUR PATH.  EXPLORE ALL LIFESTYLES ANALYZE WHAT IS AROUND YOU AND DO NOT FEAR OR LEAD A LIFE BASED ON FEAR OF THE OUTSIDE, PEOPLE OR YOURSELF. 
CREATE YOURSELF  -  WHICH WILL IN TURN LEAD OTHERS TO SEEK THEIR INNER-SELVES​ NOT BY RELIGION OR GOVERNMENT WHICH IS ONE IN THE SAME.  UPLIFT YOURSELF AND LIVE.
- AJ :)