Must confess I did not like previous "about me". It sounded like a stamp. So i decided to change some things and here they are:

Firstly I have to make it clear for some people:

I am rich and stupid!  Come on!  Who is willing to get my money for your sick mother-daughter-education-visa-tickets-laptop-invent-what-else? (I am not sure I have money but if you do think I have I must pretend as if I do have them to distribute among online’s beggars:)) Unfortunately they very rarely read people’s profiles

Now here I am:

Lidia by name. Busy, tired, daughter, mother, wife.



I am loyal to family and friends. I do not expect more from others than I am willing to give.

I wonder how do people live in different parts of the world?

I hear my inner voice. But sometimes it wispers so quietly:) As a result I am mistaken. But who is not?

I see invisible things. Do not be scared:) Just my inner voice promts me what a person somebody is whom I talking with.

I want a lot of things: meet nice people for friendship, improve my English, learn some other rather exotic language, bring into people life only positive emotions.

I am strong enough to make all my dreams come true. I accept both victories and dissapointments with the same grace.

I pretend to be happy. As a result I become happy. It seems like to exersise a habit.  The habit to be happy. It sounds funny:) I think it is not one of the harmful habits.

I feel calmness when reading, power when driving, joy when sun is shining.

I touch the hearts and minds of others.

I worry about kids which sometimes are treated by adults too cruely. It hurts me much. Why people make them to strive for living?

I cry when somebody suffers from unbearable pain. And I cry when I feel it helps me to going on.

I uderstand I cannot help all the people to be happy. But I think I am able to make somebody smile, to make somebody’s day more joyful.

I say we are equell.

I dream of travelling to others points of the Earth.

I try to realize people’s behaviour and their motivation.

I hope at the end of my life looking back at my years i could say to myself: It is great! Well done!

I am just ordinary woman who tries to bring joy to others just being herself.

If you still are reading my profile I have to say you thank you. Hope it was not boring

I understand that all of you have your own views, religious beliefs & political ideas.  I really respect all the nationalities & their traditions. It is of no importance  what colour of skin you are, first of all we are the children of  one and the same mother, named the Earth.  But still I have some  requests as follows:

*If you have a good sence of humour - you are welcomed

*If you are sincere and  honest person - you are welcomed

*If you wish to find a reliable friend in me and if you are ready to give the same - you are welcomed


And there are 3 points that are really annoying:

1) proposal of relationship and marriage

2) proposal of friendship without having a talk with me before

3) wasting of my time and your as well  when I am reading  something like "Hi how are you". Please add something to your message or if you can’t or don’t want write more what is the reason to write at all?

Driving, foreign languages, reading, music, walking etc.

popular music, R&B,  rock music (Def Leppard, Scorpions, ballads of Metalliсa)

I don't like films of horrors, thrillers etc. Old good comedies & melodramas are welcome.

Comedy club

I like literature, especially those of 17th -19th century: The History of Tom Jones, a Foundling by Henry Fielding, Notre-Dame De Paris & Les miserables by Victor Hugo, Le Rouge et le Noir  by Frederick Stendhal, Vanity Fair by William Makepeace Thackeray & many others.

Every time when I read, or heard, or experienced something that deeply touched my heart I would like to share it with my friends and not only with friends. Maybe it could touch their life in ways I will never know. Maybe it could help somebody to realize how important is to think positively. I want to persuade you – I am not wearing «pink glasses» and I do see real life with all its beautiful and ugly sides. But let us not to lose our best human essence irrespective of situation we can find ourselves in. Let us be a bit happier and appreciate the best gift – our life

(the more in my notes)

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The essence of destiny:
watch your thoughts for they become words.
Choose your words for they become actions.
Understand your actions for they become habit.
Study your habits for they become your character.
Develop your character for it becomes your destiny...

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For everything there is a season,
And a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to seek, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to throw away;
A time to tear, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate,
A time for war, and a time for peace.

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