41 year old social worker with a busy life but always curious to meet new people. My life is a big complicated mess and sometimes a living hell but I guess that's what makes it so interesting and never dull :) Altough I'm trying real hard to follow my heart and to make some changes, my mind is getting in the way too many times. And not only my mind is bothering me, a great sense of responsibili​ty and an active consience are two things that I would gladly trade in for a bit more assertivity and *****.
And for who is wondering: QueenofWT stands for Queen of Whisfull Thinking so you don't have to ask :)

What I don't need are scammers and men only interested in playing games and hurting my feelings, I already have enough of them in my life!
I don't believe in divine intervention​s, unconditiona​l love is a fairytale and falling in love is just real painfull.

Honesty is such a lonely word.
Everyone is so untrue.
Honesty is hardly ever heard.
And mostly what I need from you.
I can always find someone
to say they sympathize.
If I wear my heart out on my sleeve.
But I don't want some pretty face
to tell me pretty lies.
All I want is someone to believe.

I am only looking for friends from all over the world and especially from the US. I don't know what it is but I seem to have a special connection to that country. Last June I finally realised a dream and I went to the US for the first time. And I loved it!!! And now I already booked a second trip, in september I'm leaving for two weeks Georgia and Florida.

photography,​ traveling, reading, spending too much time on here and write with the world :)
If your interested in seeing the pictures of my trip to the States take a look at www.flickr.​com/photos/d​eedeekay/​ 
Feel free to give me comments :)

depends on my mood but I like all kinds of music. Lyrics are important and I use music a lot to express my feelings and thoughts

"Take me on a trip, I'd like to go some day
Take me to Chicago, San Francisco Bay.
I really want to come kick it with you.
You'll be my American Boy. American Boy."   (Estelle)

"I am looking for answers to questions never posed
I haven't got a clue, I'm living like a ghost
I can't seem to read the signs
I'm swimming in the sand, I'm searching
I hold on to your reasons, I'll hold on to my dreams
it's all good and bad advice 'cause you have to choose
one friend says go ahead, other one says don't
I'm searching
whatever I try I can't find it
wherever I roam it's all gone
no you can't find it, first you gotta lose it
looking for an angle to change my point of view
waiting for somebody, someone to relate to
hoping for forgiveness,​ I'm living for love
I'm searching
yearning for a teacher, to show me what to do
I'm learning from failure, that's all that I can do
working in solutions, a fiction of truth
keep on searching"​                                        (Anouk)


Anouk is a great Dutch singer and I like her music and lyrics a lot. But there are a lot more that I like :)

the ones with a good story and no commercials

don't have much time to watch TV but when I do I like to see a good documentary or a quiz. I also liked Lost and Weeds a lot.

trillers and all kinds of books that make you think about what you just have read.
A book that touches you always seems to be read at the time you need it.

"Were all in the gutter but some of us are looking at the stars"    (Oscar Wilde)

"ex malo bonum" (out of evil comes good)

" The only reason why God created men is because he was disapointed with the monkey"​  (Mark Twain)

" It is better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid then to open it and remove all doubt"  

"Be good and you will be lonesome"​

"Whenev​er you find that you are on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect"​ (Mark Twain)