at the risk of sounding conceited...​im a truly amazing individual and unlike any other man on earth! im kind of weary or shy in the beginning but for the most part im very open and extremely honest. I am who I am and dont try to be what others want me to be. im happy with myself so if folks cant except that then its mind over matter...I dont mind and they dont matter.

most of the time when working I listen to country music but I love all music except for Gangster Rap. I think the ability to use a lot of profanity shows a lack of intelligence​, vocabulary and artistic talent.... but thats just my opinion.

I collect knives and swords, write poems and short stories as a hobby, someday I hope to make a living at it. I workout daily, I'm not a violent person and can usually talk things out without going to blows...but if I have to fight I will.

there are only a handful of guys I trust 100%! as for everyone else I put faith in them day to day but tend to be cautious. I do have issues when it comes to trusting folks but it has kept me alive. I think im a good judge of character and dont request to be friends with just anyone. I do however give everyone a chance to be my friend if they choose.

im not here for the points or to be popular, im not here to have hand to glad combat while looking at naked photos, I do flirt at times but thats about it..I dont feel that im very attractive on the outside I have a lot of scars from over the years, but inside I feel im the most beautiful person in the world..I have 3 non biological kids that I raised and love as my own.

I'm single and not looking... I loved and lost and im too afraid to try again :-( just some of that honesty I was talking bout. im not looking for "love"​ or "friend​s with benefits"​ im not trying to be a player. most of my time is spent either at work or home alone so I thought this would be a nice way to interact with others.

I do have other profiles on myspace and other sites where I blog and post my poetry if its something your interested in.

im here to make new friends via email or IM or interplas messages. I prefer females of any age but all are welcome. I believe that people enter our lives for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime.

writing, chess, working out.

country, R&B, Oldies are some of my favorites but I love all music

the Warriors, Porkys, Grease, Color Purple and soooo many others

CSI Vegas, Law and Order, UFC, Unsolved Mysteries, Cold Case,

Maximum Ride series by James Patterson, Insomnia by Stephen King

A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same.
"Elbert​ Hubbard"​

One's friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human.
"George​ Santayana"​

4 Agreements by "Don Miguel Ruiz"
BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD

Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstan​dings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST

Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance​, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgeme​nt, self-abuse, and regret.