I'm a graphic designer for a newspaper. I love my job and wouldn't change it for the world, unless I could become a writer and work from home. I'm separated and have a one and a half year old son who is the love of my life.

How to describe me... let's see...Easy going, love to laugh and have fun, great listener, good talker, friendly, outgoing, shy, lovable, lonely, scared, brave, stubborn, artistic.

I believe in ghosts and the afterlife. There's gotta be more to life than just this. I also believe in aliens... because if I don't, I'm afraid I'll be abducted.

Please don't try to add me as your friend if we've never spoken - I will hit the DENY button. Sorry. :)

One-liners are unacceptable​. If you can't think of anything intelligent to say, answer this question: What is your favorite song and why?

Reading fiction - horror, mystery, anything that strikes my fancy; writing short stories and poems; taking long walks to nowhere; basking in the sun; photography for fun; hearing live music; sipping a margarita.

Coldplay, Dave Matthews Band, Linkin Park and just recently Schygler Stout ;-)

Eurotrip, 13 Going on 30, Saw, Turistas

Some favorite authors of mine:
Janet Evanovich, Dan Brown, Joe Hill, J.K. Rowling, Stephen King, Richard Layman, Dean Koontz and John Saul

If you have any great book suggestions,​ please let me know!

"...Let​ me tell you that I love you
That I think about you all the time
Caledonia, you're calling me, now I'm going home
But if I should become a stranger
Know that it would make me more than sad
Caledonia's been everything I've ever had..."​

"Want jij - Jij maakt me vrij - Alles wat ik wil is jou aan mijn zij
Samen het pad - van de liefde ontdekken
Jij en ik - oeh"

"Life is too short to wake up with regrets."​

The only people you need in your life are the ones that have proven they need you in theirs. (stolen from Maarten) :)

Eat, Drink and Be Merry - for tomorrow we die.

Don't take life too seriously, you'll never make it out alive anyhow.

Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong - Murphy's Law