Thank you for all the condolences, I sincerely appreciate it.

I am back around, but give me some time as I have a TON of messages to get to and not even time to devote to them all at once :)

Gonna be some time before I can get back to
the people awaiting responses

I try to always do the best that I can. A lot of the times that ends up being mistakes, but I am at a point in my life where I simply don't care anymore. I am just who I am. If you don't like that? Then you don't have to be friends with me. I don't live my life for anybody but myself. I've been through so many things that I am very accepting of everyone's faults, but at the same time I'm not afraid to walk away from a horrific friendship or something that I don't feel is right and you need to respect that. If not? I won't even waste my time on explaining. Why would that be? There are always more people out there to meet and greet with.

I'm not on here much as I'm focused on my writing career and my business so if it takes me a long time to get back to you, understand that I will get there but I have a lot of friends and I'm not really online much. Far too busy in real life to get online much anymore.

I don't harass people nor try to degrade people, but if I don't like somebody, I will speak my feelings and if you do not like it, do not talk to me.

I am Irish, Norwegian Viking and Native American. Was raised by a mother born in the south so I like to also say I'm part Southern as I do believe they are their own type as well :) If you're from the south, or know it, you know exactly what I mean. I absolutely adore and live for Ireland and Italy.

Contact me to worship me or hate me, it doesn't matter to me whichever you want. I know that I am great and I don't need my friends telling me it all the time to know it true! Yes, I have huge amounts of confidence thanks. I find it entertaining, and get a kick out of people contacting me to tell me they are glad they don't live next door to me. You have no affect on me as I've already forgotten YOU trust me. Be lucky I keep my temper controlled and remember when someone tells me not to talk to them? I NEVER contact them again.

If you don't have a picture, I'm not talking to you long. Just me, so don't get all bent out of shape. Yeesh you men act like I am emasculating you. If you saw me in line somewhere, you'd not hesitate to start trying to gain my attention and flirt with me so why keep contacting me JUST to say don't contact you, trust me, I know your types and I know you would. I'll give you the much-needed attention for five seconds and then I'm done. I'll lump you in with the thousands of others that you have officially labeled yourself as. So why say things to me you'd never DARE to say to my face in real life? Get over your tiny egos. But here, I'll save you the time... Yes I am clearly crazy; in need of medication; am a bit**; ugly; YES don't worry, you ARE smarter; and whatever else your clearly educated selves can come up with. Have a nice day! :)

For everyone else: I don't bite so no worries :)

Forewarning, I may get to the point where I simply don't want talk to you no more and it's only just that. I mean nothing offensive, or rude about it. I simpy feel like I've reached the end you know? I am fully capable of letting you know. If you make me uncomfortable, I'll tell you. If I find something wrong about something you said, I'll tell you. Doesn't mean I'll delete you without warning, but I'm forewarning you that I don't hold things like that back and don't mean nothing bad either. I'm simply straight-forward. I expect the same.

NOTE: The light is NOT indicator of here. Only that window is open. And if I pop on, it's usually to answer a message, then I have to leave again. I answer messages AS THEY COME IN, so if I take a while don't worry, have patience as I WILL get back to you--I have tons to get to! :) If you're only looking for a quick Hi, use the wall.

At the end of the day, when you can still look yourself in the mirror, that is the true measure of whether you lived your day the best possible way that you could.

People will think what they want at the end of the day.