PLEASE LET ME DRAW YOUR ATTENTION TO 2 POINTS FIRST OF ALL...(1) I WILL NOT ADD ANYONE ON MSN OR YAHOO, REGARDLESS OF WHETHER I'VE SPOKEN TO YOU BEFORE.(2)  MY NAME IS JAN - NOT  babe - baby - sweetheart - angel -  pretty - honey -  sweetie  -  beautiful -  OR any other crap you may think would work with me...? ( IT WON'T)
Im 45 years old, I have 3 adult children - 2 daughter's and 1 son - and an 18 month old grandson.
I live in an old mining village in West Yorkshire, and I work full time as a cook in a cafe partnership.​
I love going out on a weekend for a drink.
Im very outspoken and I DO tend to voice my opinions regularly on any given subject...so​ if you're easily offended, it may be a good idea not to ask my opinion if you're looking for a specific response?
I have a great sense of humour and I love to laugh.
I WOULD like to point out here that being 45 does not make me gullible, in need of a man, in need of a relationship​, or in need of complements,​ you can save yourself a lot of time by not messaging me with insincere garbage, or suggestions that I look like the woman you want to settle down with !!
I prefer people to be truthful, as I am.

Interested in getting to know people from anywhere and everywhere..​.I'm NOT interested in listening to anyone's woes about failed relationship​s, we've all been there...
I like to chat about anything and everything, and probably have an opinion on every subject.
If you're looking for money, or a passport into this country, then you're reading the wrong profile...ke​ep looking !!
I'm not interested in a relationship​ with anyone from any African country, anyone who's the same age as my kids, anyone who cant string a legible sentence together....​in short - Im NOT looking thanks!
Please dont send me a friend request unless we have exchanged messages on a regular basis, as I dont believe you can become friends with someone you know nothing about?
I am very tolerant and respectful of other's but Im not too keen on idiots !
My dislikes are dishonesty, infidelity, rudeness...a​nd MOTHS !!
Just be yourself and be honest?

I love reading, love music, and going out socialising on a weekend.
I love watching rugby, darts, and snooker, and Im a passionate fan of our local rugby team...I watch them play regularly, and Im often seen jumping up and down and cheering like a lunatic...oc​casionally to no avail - but still?

Celine Dion
Kid Rock
Dolly Parton
Tammy Wynette
Tina Turner
Deacon Blue
Meatloaf
Fine Young Cannibals
UB40
Tom Jones
Nickelback
Westlife
Kenny Rogers
Yvonne Fair
Janet Kaye
Boston
Journey
Neville Brothers
Van Morrison
Kings Of Leon
Barrington Levy
Beres Hammond
Michael Bolton
Roy Orbison
Smokie
Ruby Winters
Elvis Presley
Johnny Cash
Bob Marley...Lot​s of different artists for lots of different reasons?
One of my favourite tunes is Into The Mystic by Van Morrison.
My ALL TIME FAVOURITE SONG...well there's 2 of them actually -
Come To Me /  I Will...both by Ruby Winters

Bird On A Wire - A Time To Kill- A Few Good Men - Failure To Launch - City Slickers - Along Came Polly - The Break Up - Pretty Woman - Dirty Dancing - Castaway - Mystic Pizza - How Green Is My Valley -  Who Will Love My Children - The Break Up - Driving Miss Daisy - The Martin Luther King Story ( not sure if that was the title, but it was an awesome programme to watch ) !!

Most quiz shows
Nature programmes
Ramsays Kitchen Nightmares - UK & US versions.
Street Wars
Crime Documentarie​s
Air Crash Investigatio​ns
Forensic Detectives
The Discovery Channel (most things)
Border Patrol

To Kill A Mocking Bird is the book Im reading at the moment, but I love reading anything if its based on fact - Im not into fiction.
I have a keen interest in Pathology and Forensic Science, it fascinates me...? Ive been interested in American crime for years - not sure why really but there's just something about the American justice system that fascinates me?

Im also into true crime stories, and I tend to read quite a lot of books/magazi​nes on this subject.

1) You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have
2) Its funny how, day by day nothing changes - yet when you look back, everything is different?
3) Its hard waiting around for something that may never happen - especially when its all you want?
4) Never take someone for granted - one day you may wake up and realise you lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones..
5) Love isnt about finding a perfect person, its about seeing an imperfect person perfectly..
6) I'd rather die on my feet than live my life on my knees..
7) One of the hardest decisions in life...which​ bridges you cross and which bridges you burn..
8) The tragedy of life isnt in NOT reaching your goals - its in not HAVING any goals to reach..?
9) Love isnt about finding someone you can live with, its about finding someone you dont want to live without
10) Make your move before they've gone - because people change and hearts move on !!
11) The hardest bridge to cross is the one that opens your heart and leads to to where you want to be..
12) True love does'nt count the cost, but just pays the price..
13) If you spend your life looking back at what was, and what might have been - you'll miss whats in front of you and what could be..
14) Not everything thats faced can be changed - but nothing can be changed UNTIL its faced?
15) Dont make someone your world when to them, you're just an option..
16) Certain aspects of your life have to fall apart in order for something better to fall into place..
17) Never worry about people from your past, there's a reason they did'nt make it to your future
18) I dont need anger management - I just need people to stop pissing me off !!
19) How many women does it take to open a can of beer.? - none, it should already be open when he brings it to you !!
20) Men are like trees..they take at least 50yrs to grow up and mature..
21) To all the doubting men out there I'd just like to point out that Cinderella is living proof that shoes ARE important to us women and they DO change your life !!
22) Of course women dont work as hard as men - women do the job right the first time !!
23) My mind not only wanders - sometimes it leaves completely?
24) As much as I try to see things from a man's point of view, I just cant get my head that far up my own ****!!
25) ATTENTION LADIES....wh​en you're feeling really down, watch the wedding video backwards - you'll love the part where you take off the ring, walk back up the aisle, get in the car and **** off !!