I am a married [about to divorce] 30-something​ women looking for e-mail penpals, both male and female in the 39-45 age group. Apart from 1 year spent living in Namibia, I have lived in South Africa all my life. I work in the Human Resources field and is a bit of a workaholic and a perfectionis​t.

I would prefer if the males who choose to e-mail me are not married as there is no way for me to know whether their activities on this site take place with their wives' blessing.

Want to know anything else, ask me when you e-mail me.

Do not e-mail me if :
- you are younger or older than the age group requested
- you are in prison/have been in prison or have been charged with a
  crime
- you are from other African countries
- you are looking for a wife or girlfriend
- you want to engage in sexual talk
- you are pretending to be someone or something you are not
- your profile does not contain a photo of you.

Only real and honest people are welcome to e-mail me.

Reading, watching television or movies, listening to music, going to coffee shops and watching people going by, sleeping in over weekends.

I love dogs.

Journey, Steve Perry. Will give any kind of music a try except jazz.

Shawshank Redemption, Braveheart. All time favorite is The Silence of the Lambs. Also liked Forrest Gump and Where The Heart Is.

Medical Detectives, Law & Order, Oprah, etc. And yes, I watch the soaps.

Biographies and books on crime.

Every job is a portrait of the person who did it. Autograph your work with excellence.