ACTUALLY.

I do NOT want anyone adding me as friends, without us having spoken first - I'm not some kind of trophy you can put on your friends list. I'll only add you if I think we fit together extraordinar​y well, and as you can see I've only got a small number of friends. I care for them, and they mean something to me, so don't count on me adding you if you aren't interested in befriending me first.

Do ONLY write to me if you feel like having intelligent discussions regarding practically everything, using good English, otherwise, I won't be answering you.


My goals:

- to perform well in school so I can become a teacher, psychologist​, or maybe a scholar of some sort, researching things.

- to become a politician or doing something that really matters, something that actually helps our world and doesn't destroy it - most people aren't concerned about being commited, which is sad.

- to be more involved with music, joining a band, maybe becoming a music teacher - the rock star dream is there!

- to take drama lessons, and to get involved more in role-playing​, it seems like an incredibly interesting game to play.

- to see a new day rise, I think it's beautiful how every new day has new things to give, a new person to become friends with and always something new to explore.

- to meet wonderful people, there is no feeling like the one of having met a new friend.

- to raise children, I think 2 would be the most suitable, and they are going to have a non-conventi​onal childhood without all the dogmas with gender roles involved. Or do I really want children? I'm not so sure anymore, but I don't plan on getting one in a year or TEN, so. ;'D

- to constantly try to "find myself"​, whatever that might mean, improve myself and learn new things, and to always keep my mind open for other views than mine.

- to help people, that's really something that gives me a kick, that's why I want to have a job where I can guide people through their lives, something that would never tire me.

- to enjoy life at it's fullest before I die; I really want to explore the world, its inhabitants;​ broaden my views, and overcome my fears.

I'm looking for a person who has got:

- a wish to actually have a proper discussion, with exchanging values and ideas; NOT just with you trying to persuade me that you've got"the​ truth".​ For, there is no truth. No ultimate knowledge, nothing that is for certain. There are just different ways of living, of thinking, and of being, and the first step for everyone, should be in trying to accept things - in trying to understand how others think, and respect them for that. If they're not being complete dicks, haha!

- a big heart, a big love for humanity and a lot of empathy.

- humour, that's really really important, not very much online, but in real life it's something that's absolutely necessary.

- a great personality - I don't care if you're fat or skinny, shy or social, beautiful or ugly, I just want you to have a beautiful soul, and a great deal of honesty. 

- matching interests as me and could cope with my strange personality.​

I am;

- belonging to the Swedish political party "Miljöpartiet"​, or "The Green",​ having a very humane view on politics, focusing on the well being of the world and its inhabitants instead of an increased GDP
- a diligent book reader
- a fighter to confront injustices
- constantly listening to music, singing music, etc
- completely perverted, which is notable in my humour
- totally crazy at times
- an atheist,and please, if you are devoted to a religion, discuss WHY with me, I'm interested in knowing how you think!
- an enormous Bowie fan, his 1969-1975-pe​riod really holds some of the greatest albums ever.
- verryy feminine
- omnisexual or more clearly: I don't see gender as a limit for love
- in love with my guitar
- overconfiden​t and I always believe things go way better than they actually do.
- an incurable optimist! (see above!)
- terribly social, at times - moodiness is one of my biggest traits, and I can switch moods quite fast.
- a very nerdy individual with lineage since the Nintendo 8-bits era.
- very feministic and want to eliminate inherited gender roles.
- oriented in the manga and animé's oh so exciting world!
- a manga drawer!
- completely loving to do spontaneous jokes

I'm not;

- an organized human being.
- always very good at keeping my word, most often because my parents always have things to object on
- someone who stresses himself up for tiny things, most often I'm calm.

I have:

- acquired most things I wanted to reach in my life when I was 15, but I'm always setting up new goals: without them you'll lose track of your life
- opinions, and I'm not afraid of telling you them, specially not if you're acting like one big dick
- a good hair growth
- a hard time losing my temper, except if you're really a major idiot, then I'll definitely kick your ***
- a terrible memory - repetition is my best friend!
- less than 20 bought CD's, though I've got tons on the computer
- the bad habit of eating LOADS of food, haha, but my metabolism luckily takes care of that.

I love:

- my wonderful girlfriend
- my friends, the few I have, I'm very picky!
- people who dare to stand for their opinions, who care to engage in things!
- mange and animé, and the whole of Japan!
- games of all kinds, give me more RPG's a lá Final Fantasy!
- to play psychologist​, if you've got problems, contact me immediately!​
- to discuss things, it's wonderful.
- interesting people, people who dare to stand outside the norm, who dare to oppose inherited traditions and beliefs

I hate:

- male chauvinists who treat females as inferiors; give me a world full of hope and understandin​g, not of hate and looking down on other people!
- liquorice, it’s terrible.
- injustices.
- besserwisser​s, who think they know things they REALLY don't
- bad parents, they have all the responsibili​ty in the WORLD, and are destroying their children’s lives.
- old men who think they can have sex with me, it's disgusting!
- fireworks, it's such a ******* waste of money and people´s lives
- the cigarette industry, war industry, drug industry, and a lot of other industries profiting on hurting other people

David Bowie
Conor Oberst (Bright Eyes)
Annika Norlin (Säkert!/Hel​lo Saferide)
Muse
John Lennon
Miss Li 
Queen
Elton John
Håkan Hellström 
Nobuo Uematsu
Miyavi
Danny Elfman
Kristian Anttila 
Moto Boy

Games list:

Top 30

1.   Vampire: the Masquerade: Bloodlines
2.   Planescape: Torment
      Kingdom Hearts
      Final Fantasy X
      Final Fantasy IX
      Knights of the Old Republic 2
      Escape from Monkey Island
      Sanitarium
      Heroes of Might and Magic 3
      Legend of Zelda: Majora’s Mask
      Wild Arms
      Little Big Adventure 2
      Super Mario: 64
      Black and White
      Neverwinter Nights
      Mario Kart: Double Dash
      The Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion
      The Elder Scrolls III: Morrowind
      Diablo 2
      Hitman
      SSX 3
      Grand Theft Auto: Vice City
      Longest Journey
      Worms World Party
      Theme Hospital
      Grim Fandango
      Mafia
      Chrono Trigger
      Sid Meier’s Pirates!
      Wario Ware

The only ones I actually can be sure of where I want to place, are Vampire: the Masquerade: Bloodlines, and Planescape: Torment; they truly are the best games I have ever played, and I can’t really see any game beating them. The rest are games that have a place in my heart, but which I can’t really put into a ranking system; which isn’t really necessary - they are all great games, just in different ways.

Film isn't really a hobby of mine, I just occasionally​ go to the movies and just sometimes watch DVD films at home, but what I'm looking for in a movie is for it to make me feel emotions, to make me cry, become angry, frightened, laugh -- to watch a movie that isn't a master of what it's doing, isn't really interesting.​ Specially movies that actually has a message, combining it with strong emotions, are FANTASTIC.

Dr Phil really thrills me, it's sometimes really americanized​ with the layout, but Dr Phil is an amazing individual and he inspires me, who have thoughts of becoming a psychologist​, and he of course inspires everyone out there who has problems with his/her life, maybe saying to people "you're​ not alone, there's someone else who's got your disorder as well".

Conan O'Brien, he's ABSOLUTELY hilarious! His show is maybe not as funny in general as Jay Leno, but I personally like his style as a host better than all the other Talk Show Hosts. His body language and style has really been an inspiration to me in my own humour development.​ ^_^

Fantasy really appeals me and I've read all of Tolkien’s books, all CS Lewis's "Narnia"​ books, the whole Harry Potter series by JK Rowling, all the book about "The wizard from OZ", all the "Othori"​ books, by Leanne Hearn, the series including "The golden compass"​, by Philip Pullman, but other than fantasy I really like feministic literature and avant-garde styles of writing. Philosophica​l books really are interesting as well; they make you broaden your horizon and revise your own opinions. I’d actually read practically anything, as long as it’s extraordinar​y.

Barba non facit philosophum - The beard doesn't make the philosopher
One isn't born, but rather becomes, a woman.  - Simone de Beauvoir