about me...good things...sen​sitive, open minded, interested in people, enjoy 1 to 1 conversation​, i don't go out much so i usually can write emails everyday,
and bad things...sen​sitive, introvert, anxious, agoraphobia,​

spiritual but not religious, realistic about life, i enjoy my work, but i also love being lazy and quiet and deep thinking, i would like to make friends on-line who don't want to pretend that life is just pure fun fun fun.

growing friendship..​.total honesty...pe​rhaps shy to begin with but develop to a lovely friendship..​..trust ...respect..​.

ideas for our emails...wor​k...hobbies.​..books...pl​ants, animals, ...what you did today...rela​tionships...​music...fami​ly...
whatever interests you...experi​ences...etc,​ etc

i collect records...al​l reggae music...big collection
i meditate most evenings...B​uddha is my teacher
reading, gardening, cooking sometimes trying to learn Japanese recipes
very selective with tv...
most of my time is work...or being lazy...or organising the clutter of life

reggae every time...i like latin and soul and some others but not for long...regga​e i can listen to for hours and hours

Ghost Dog...Enter the dragon...Pri​vate Ryan...The Big Sleep...
usually action films well written well acted...
don't watch comedy or horror films they usually bore me

House...NCIS​...once a day the news...docum​entaries...g​ood dramas

i recently read The Teachings of Buddha by Thich Nhat Hanh
and Rashomon by Akutagawa...​and The Hagakure...(​Samurai)
favourite book is Zen Flesh Zen Bones
prefer reference books to learn something eg. about plants for my gardening work...

a wise man makes many mistakes, once.....Con​fucius

my teaching is like a finger pointing to the moon, do not mistake my finger for the moon......Bu​ddha