Yes it's possible...

Hmmmmmhhhh? its good question accualy!! I'm not sure i deffindly think it possible to form a really good friendship with someone over Emails and interpals and all those things but im not sold on the lovve idea yet. But who know really, anything possible!!!!)

NO. (:

It is definitely possible, although the assumption would be that the exchanges would be based on the foundation of honesty between both parties. However, as someone rightly pointed out, one would not be exposed to the bad habits of the other as one would in person. Thus, there is a need to be realistic in the expectations. Long distance certainly is hard, and one must be prepared for the eventual possibility of no conclusion as well. Yet, in the face of all these obstacles, there are success stories as well. In the end, it is up to the commitment of both individuals.

It is definitely possible to "fall for" someone only through e-mails. But you have to meet in person and spend a substantial amount of time together before you can know if you have the sort of love and compatiability that can sustain a long term relationship.

My advice is to not develop unrealistic expectations before you meet. That way you can save yourself the potential disappointment and heartache that was based on fantasy rather than real life.

fleurforever wrote:

yes it sure is ,you can learn so much by opening your hearts but be careful,it can also break your heart,if one day they jsut stop talking ,they are far away and ucant look in their eys and beg them to think it over it can be just as hard as for real

Im a Marine and honestly that is the worse thing in the world talking to your gf and she just stops next thing u know shes with another guy and u cant be there to look at her and change her mind would never wish it on my worse enemy

fleurforever wrote:

yes it sure is ,you can learn so much by opening your hearts but be careful,it can also break your heart,if one day they jsut stop talking ,they are far away and ucant look in their eys and beg them to think it over it can be just as hard as for real

Im a Marine and honestly that is the worse thing in the world talking to your gf and she just stops next thing u know shes with another guy and u cant be there to look at her and change her mind would never wish it on my worse enemy

I met my husband online, we've been together 3+ years now
And although i am "proof" that this can work, i must say that the man i met in person was MUCH different than the man i had thought he was online, luckly in my case i liked him better in person, for different reasons.
I would NEVER, ever recommend online dating or a long distance relationship to someone, it is much too hard, and unless both people are fully comitted to making it work it could turn out horribly.