lidia_pidia wrote:

Thank you very much for your help. At the end, I decided to tell her the truth because I really felt bad to continue writing her like if I was her best friend and I told her that I felt unconfortable every time I met her and that she didn't ask me anything; she replied that I'm discriminating her just because she's shy.... She wrote this in public on her Facebook profile and all her friends wrote many different comments on me and they even insulted me.... I think this isn't very fair. If I have a problem with someone, I wouldn't write everything in public on Facebook... I have the impression that she doesn't realize how shy she is and sometimes I think that she uses this as en excuse; she thinks that she doesn't have to speak to other people just because she is shy and she doesn't wants to do anything to change this situation... She wrote a phrase on her Facebook profile: "I'm living in my little world, it's up to you to make me discover the rest of the world". I think she should come out from her little world and try to make efforts, because she doesn't have many friends in real life... What do you think about all this??

after making her feelings public...ditch her

be my friend instead

Wow what a mess.... she sounds like she wasn't a good friend to begin with and worse if she uses her FB account in that way.... I think that she should be ashamed and you should move on to new and exciting friends...

lidia_pidia wrote:

Thank you very much for your help. At the end, I decided to tell her the truth because I really felt bad to continue writing her like if I was her best friend and I told her that I felt unconfortable every time I met her and that she didn't ask me anything; she replied that I'm discriminating her just because she's shy.... She wrote this in public on her Facebook profile and all her friends wrote many different comments on me and they even insulted me.... I think this isn't very fair. If I have a problem with someone, I wouldn't write everything in public on Facebook... I have the impression that she doesn't realize how shy she is and sometimes I think that she uses this as en excuse; she thinks that she doesn't have to speak to other people just because she is shy and she doesn't wants to do anything to change this situation...

Indeed. That's exactly what it sounds like. You're best off getting rid, I think.

lidia_pidia wrote:

She wrote a phrase on her Facebook profile: "I'm living in my little world, it's up to you to make me discover the rest of the world". I think she should come out from her little world and try to make efforts, because she doesn't have many friends in real life... What do you think about all this??

I think she's one of life's habitual moaners. Everything is always down to everyone else and nothing is ever down to her. So I do indeed repeat -- get rid She sounds rubbish (and not to mention, extremely un-proactive and probably quite lazy as well).