Error: Oops! If you are seeing this, your browser is
not loading the page correctly. Please try pressing Control-F5 to force reload
the page. If this doesn't work, you may need to update your browser: Download Firefox | Download Chrome | Download
IE
one of my friends was asked this because his friends with some 10yrs younger then them, nothing hapens between or anything they r just friends so, y do some people have a problem with that
I don't think that is a problem, never we judge person by age, with younger we could get power and with older we could get mind it's just an exemple for this situation
there's definitely nothing wrong in it. It just does not happen often because usually interests of different generations are also different.
Quote:
y do some people have a problem with that
because it's unusual. Perhaps they don't believe that they are friends.
anyway, who cares if THEY have a problem with that? it's their problem.
Re: Is it wrong to be friends with people younger and older?
joygrace
Elite InterPaller
Joined: 29 Aug 2010
Posts: 6771
Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 7:19 am
cws1 wrote:
one of my friends was asked this because his friends with some 10yrs younger then them, nothing hapens between or anything they r just friends so, y do some people have a problem with that
I have friends who are still in University, and I don't have problems with it, as always they come to me more for a motherly advise.
and my kids adores them.
_________________ The most valuable asset is not a head full of knowledge but a heart full of love with an ear ready to listen and a hand willing to help.
Catmania
Elite InterPaller
Joined: 19 Jul 2011
Posts: 3479
Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 2:15 pm
I have younger as well as older friends and I can get on with both so I see no problem in that. Not age but personality is what matters in communication.
I have a lot of friends younger than me - I'm the "mother hen" and confidante to them. Plus, I'm a lot younger than my age says and my hubby is 8 yrs. younger than me, so I have all his friends as well. Age is just a number.
I have friends who are my age yes, but I get along with older people more. One of my dearest friends is Vika, catnip, I always run to her for heart-to-heart, or better yet, punch-to-punch talk about personal issues LOL!
I think it is unusual. For instance, I am 21. I wouldn't want to particularly make friends with someone 30 years old. If it were a work relationship or something, I wouldnt be too weird...since theres a reason. But not only am I 21, but people often believe I am much younger, so if someone much older than me were trying to befriend me, I would of course be curious at the reason. Age difference means growth. I don't have that much in common with someone ten years older than myself. Where as they may think what I am talking about or concerned about is annoying or unimportant. I may also be totally uninterested in what they are saying because I've had no experience close to that.
And while I agree some people can be friends with just about anyone...i think it is even different when women are friends in different age groups. Or men. But when it is a man and woman relationship I would be even more concerned that their is no real friendship.
Nina_
Elite InterPaller
Joined: 09 Jan 2010
Posts: 8516
Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 4:20 pm
I've always had friends that are younger, around my age and older than me. Men and women.
I really don't see nothing unusual in that. Made my life much more interesting and colorful, I've learned a lot from them.
You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot vote in polls in this forum