zoemoose wrote:

i never felt.. or looked. very boyish growing up so i dont think i experience male-dom like males today male.. ummm. easier acceptance from peers... life usually puts more optunities in front of them girls we have a totally unspoken language amongst other girls. .. oh did i just say that? we are the desired gender. withouth seeking it.. males come to us sex is way better

That's true, but only for a very short time. Male attention drops way off once a woman passes 23 or so. Many of my female friends have admitted this to me. Heck, even model Gisele Bundchen admitted this is true when she was still in her mid-20s.

If it happened to her, what hope does the average woman have?

Aristostomias wrote:

JSS2012NY wrote: I do not see pregnancy nor child birth nor being a mother as a disadvantage. There is a wisdom, a strength, a warmth and a love, intuition that a woman posesses specifically for this reason. To be a mother is to know what it is to love someone more than yourself. And that is what it is to be a woman! Do they? After all, not all mothers are good mothers. I'm sure loving another person more than oneself is not constrained to women, but I'm not so sure that such an ability is necessarily a good thing; there is such a thing as loving yourself too little.

I'm referring of course, to healthy individuals. People with serious mental health problems (and I'm a therapist so I see this all the time) are a different story. And I think your children should ALWAYS come before yourself. Other people, no, there needs to be a healthy balance between yourself and others. It's not to say some men can't love someone else more than themselves, but, to be quite frank, I find it rather rare that they do. Just my opinion. And yes, I do think it's more common among women, specifically because of maternal instinct.

JSS2012NY wrote:

Aristostomias wrote: JSS2012NY wrote: I do not see pregnancy nor child birth nor being a mother as a disadvantage. There is a wisdom, a strength, a warmth and a love, intuition that a woman posesses specifically for this reason. To be a mother is to know what it is to love someone more than yourself. And that is what it is to be a woman! Do they? After all, not all mothers are good mothers. I'm sure loving another person more than oneself is not constrained to women, but I'm not so sure that such an ability is necessarily a good thing; there is such a thing as loving yourself too little. I'm referring of course, to healthy individuals. People with serious mental health problems (and I'm a therapist so I see this all the time) are a different story. And I think your children should ALWAYS come before yourself. Other people, no, there needs to be a healthy balance between yourself and others. It's not to say some men can't love someone else more than themselves, but, to be quite frank, I find it rather rare that they do. Just my opinion. And yes, I do think it's more common among women, specifically because of maternal instinct.

The situation can be such that the survival of your children depends on your life. In that case, do you prioritize your life or your children's lives?

Endr wrote:

Guys I thought this topic was over when I said this

Who's the mod here?

Sorsis wrote:

Then again for example something so basic like clothing. Practically girls can wear almost any clothes and have it working, but try that same as a guy.

Funny that you should say that now. I agree though. Good points.

Aristostomias wrote:

Endr wrote: Guys I thought this topic was over when I said this Who's the mod here?

My post, my rules. If I edit the original post, it will force you to lock it. No?

Endr wrote:

Aristostomias wrote: Endr wrote: Guys I thought this topic was over when I said this Who's the mod here? My post, my rules. If I edit the original post, it will force you to lock it. No?

You can edit it? You're not the only one.

Aristostomias wrote:

Endr wrote: Aristostomias wrote: Endr wrote: Guys I thought this topic was over when I said this Who's the mod here? My post, my rules. If I edit the original post, it will force you to lock it. No? You can edit it? You're not the only one.

I know, I have seen your power oh great one.
Flowers are your symbol of death

Wine poured upon the water cannot be recovered..I shot an arrow into the air...Endr,when you put up the balloon it's there for everyone...You began the thread ,you cannot demand that it be stopped when it doesn't go your way, it makes you sound like israels' neighbours..

Goell wrote:

Wine poured upon the water cannot be recovered..I shot an arrow into the air...Endr,when you put up the balloon it's there for everyone...You began the thread ,you cannot demand that it be stopped when it doesn't go your way, it makes you sound like israels' neighbours..

Don't take it so seriously,
I'm just playing with Ari, he knows that.