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abyamin000
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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:17 pm |
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There is 2 thing Culture and Religion
a good Muslim follows Religion and than Culture, for example u can wear jeans, stylish underwear or whatever inside your Hijab or Niquab, that will fulfill the all side
but many Muslim girls don't follow the clothing rules yet they follow other Islamic rules, for example being Christian do all follow every rules?
oh, a very interesting fact is Hijab reduce the rape, even I read that one USA statistic shows that the women use short skirt are more raped in street, club etc.
and if u see the rate of rape in Iran, UAE, KSA, QATER where ppl use more Hijab, its very low.....this is also a funny side! and one christian also told me that their religion also support very protective cloth for women and don't allow something like bikini in beaches, is that right?
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happy-carol
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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:35 pm |
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| Yiseul1317 wrote: |
You have a very funny friend, then.
First, making fun of people's belief and their custom is not good, everyone knows.
Second, all Muslim women don't wear hijab, again I think everyone knows. Al the worst place, I'm a Muslim and I don't wear hijab... so, all Muslim women don't do that.
Third, if a man sees a Muslim woman without hijab, they don't definitely have to marry.
Fourth, the answer of your main question.... At home, if they be with their family they wouldn't wear hijab. But if they have guests they would.
By the way, guests are not usually rude enough to enter someone's house suddenly, without knocking on the door or ringing the door-ring or something. Especially when they know a Muslim family lives in this house, they'd knock before entering. |
Yes, my friends around me are funny people which included myself
First, that’s why I didn’t copy paste exactly what he asked as my the title of this thread.
Second, again. I asked about niqab not hijab. If my English is really bad then I better explain with picture :
(PS. I found this picture on internet but written in French. I don’t understand French, anyone who understand French please let me know if it’s written something offensive so I’ll remove this picture)
Third, it’s his joke. My question was : how about if a guest suddenly come? Does she really need to run away into another room such as a bedroom? (so no one can see her face and hair)
Fourth, again. I asked about niqab not hijab. I’m Indonesian and hijab is a very common thing in my country. People in Indonesia mostly live with the big family included with in laws and another reason they used to wear hijab at home too because usually they’re pretty close with their neighbours and don’t even close their front doors when their children are playing around.
This is typical their houses in suburban area in Indonesia :
Anyway thank you again for your answers and from your descriptions I just got some conclusions: They don’t wear burqa at home (in Middle east countries) because they only live the close family (not with in laws), they’re more individual and no guests suddenly come like the society in suburban areas in Indonesia. I guess different weather also another aspect why they don’t have to wear burqa at home.
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SkyPiercer
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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 7:26 pm |
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| happy-carol wrote: |
| Ok. Have you ever noticed when it's a woman in BURQA's turn, does she need to show her face to the woman immigration officer? (if her passport shows her face, the officer needs to identify her, except her passport only shows her eyes) |
Are you serious ? A photo passport showing only the eyes ?  Which authority would issue such a thing ?! I would like to see that. Even hijab photos are barely accepted. The ears, form of the face, forehead...all of this must be visible.
Of course they have to show their face. They could be dangerous male criminals/terrorists hiding in women clothes and using fake papers. The women who refuse would be turned back to their countries. Nothing unusual or exceptional, it just happened two weeks ago : 3 Qatari women wearing Burqas were denied entrance in France and turned back to their country, they had refused to comply with security rules.
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happy-carol
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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 8:10 pm |
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| abyamin000 wrote: |
oh, a very interesting fact is Hijab reduce the rape, even I read that one USA statistic shows that the women use short skirt are more raped in street, club etc.
and if u see the rate of rape in Iran, UAE, KSA, QATER where ppl use more Hijab, its very low.....this is also a funny side! and one christian also told me that their religion also support very protective cloth for women and don't allow something like bikini in beaches, is that right? |
I think you have enough common sense to know that the purpose of hijab is not 'to prevent rape'.
Very low? Where's your source?
Rape rates are actually going to be far higher than statistics show because rape often isn't reported, the women know that people are unlikely to believe them and will accuse them of fornication or adultery and they'll end up being the ones getting punished for it. The fact that there's a massive stigma attached to rape and women are made to feel ashamed if it happens to them and it'll make it difficult for them to get married if people know they were raped.
Indonesian workers especially maids have many harrasment problems in Saudi Arabia and our government stops sending maids to Saudi Arabia due to latest case : Indonesian maid was executed because she murdered her employer who tried to rape her :
http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/afp_asiapacific/view/1136630/1/.html
Just to let you know, those maids wear hijab in Arab countries.
About bikini, I guess almost all religions ask the followers to dress modestly. You stated it yourself that not everyone folloe all rules but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t have religion if she wore a bikini
| abyamin000 wrote: |
| but many Muslim girls don't follow the clothing rules yet they follow other Islamic rules, for example being Christian do all follow every rules? |
Probably anyone who read bible will explain to you in case bikini is mentioned in the bible or not..
Please note that a few individuals are not spokepersons for the whole religion 
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