Hi!  I'm Tom,  a generally optimistic, open minded, and young thinking 50 something.   I'm single with a little less dark brown hair than I used to have with some grey around the edges!  :-)   I'm a professional​ guy with my own house who loves to travel in Europe and could really use some help with my French.

I'd also like to learn some German and Dutch.

I'd love penpals which turned into real friends in Europe, particularly​ France.  Hopefully these friendships can turn into visit swaps.  I love showing non-American​s around my little part of the world.   Male or Female are both interesting to me in their own way and I am not...NOT...​seeking romance or a relationship​.