I'm extremely sorry I think I misunderstood what you were trying to say. Thank you very for your kind advice and offer but our Southeast Asian culture is very much different to the Western culture. I believe it's not only the cultural difference that matters to bring up a child, there are so many other things that we have to be cautious like teaching the child good morals, providing him security/ love/ care/ social sanded etc etc. And I also believe that we as responsible parents we have to keep a close eye on our children up to a certain age. I'm not saying we have to over protect our children but we must
remember that the world is different now it's not the world that you and I grew up. I know some people will not agree with my idea of quitting the job for my child's benefit but I personally think it's worth when you finally see the out come. I strongly believe we need money to live but is not everything in life. Thank you once again for your advice.

Hi

1st let me thank you for visiting my profile and secondly what do you mean by "I don't know what you are looking for" if you meant what I'm looking here on this site is purely to find good friends, nothing else. I'm sure if you read my profile you'll understand it well. Thirdly, Wow, yes you are a great person to raise a such a big family, congratulations. I don't know makes you think that I need any bodies help to bring up my son, any way thanks for your help but I have a very supportive husband.

Good morning David