Welcome to my profile 👋

I'm glad you found your way here. May I take your coat? Make yourself comfortable, have a look around. If I can offer you something to drink, a little snack, or a few honest answers – feel free to reach out. Don’t worry, I don’t bite 😉
I’ve neglected my profile for quite a while, but now I’d like to use the opportunity to give you a little insight into who I am – and maybe you’ll decide it’s worth sending me a message.


A slightly different kind of man...

I’m not your “typical guy.” When I meet someone, what interests me first is their essence – their energy, presence, and how they carry themselves. Only after that comes the outer appearance. That applies not just to women, but to all people.


Who I am

You can talk with me about pretty much anything – surface-level or deep. But what I really offer are heart-to-heart conversations, not just small talk.
I don’t take myself too seriously, I enjoy making people laugh, and I listen with real attention. I’m open, honest, empathetic, and mindful.
Oh, and if you ever can’t sleep – just message me. I tell great stories – deep, calming, and sometimes even a little magical.


Values that matter to me

I still believe in things like respect, gratitude, kindness, and loyalty. My grandmother raised me with these old-school manners – and I’m proud of that.
Sure, it might sound old-fashioned, but I believe in treating others well. And honestly, there’s hardly anything more uncomfortable than feeling secondhand embarrassment because someone lacks basic decency.
Most of the time, I’m in a good mood and try to find something positive in every single day.


What I like (and what I don’t)

I’m more of a calm soul. Big crowds, concerts or festivals? Not really for me.
Instead, I enjoy sports, love games of (almost) all kinds, and appreciate quiet moments in nature.


Between self-determination and expectations – a little story

This one goes out to anyone who feels they don’t quite fit the mold – by choice or by circumstance.
My life didn’t follow the usual timeline. While many finished their studies or started families in their twenties, I was still trying to figure out who I am. It wasn’t until I turned 35 that I truly started understanding myself.
Outside this platform, I don’t have a big circle of friends. A few acquaintances, maybe – but no real support system. And yet I’ve learned that it’s possible to live fully on your own terms.
Living independently can be tough, but it’s also freeing, peaceful and honest. I’ve discovered strength, clarity, and potential in this path – and grown from it.
That said, I believe you don’t need many people around you – just the right ones. The loyal ones. The real ones.


My connection to the world

I was born in Germany, and I’m grateful to live here. I relate to certain traditional values like diligence, punctuality, and precision (within reason – I’m no perfectionist 😄).
At the same time, my heart is drawn to values from other cultures – especially Eastern philosophies like the Shaolin teachings. They embrace things we sometimes forget here: kindness, compassion, mindfulness toward nature and people, emotional awareness, forgiveness, humility, and wisdom.
Even though I’m thankful to live here, I can’t ignore some of the directions our society is heading in – especially when it comes to healthcare and social systems. I’m not saying everything is lost, but it’s time we wake up and start changing things – before we reach the point of no return.

Thank you!

I want to thank everyone I’ve had the chance to meet here – even those I didn’t fully connect with.
Also, I want to say that I’m sorry to those from certain countries I had to restrict contact with. It has nothing to do with your culture or you personally – quite the opposite. I feel connected to all people in this world.
Unfortunately, my past experiences forced me to take this step. I truly regret that.
And just to clarify: the content, the wording, and the structure of this profile were created by me. Only the translation was supported by AI – to help express what I originally wrote in a way that’s understandable and natural in English.

Wow, you actually made it all the way down here? Congratulations – and respect! 😊

Thank you so much for taking the time to read all this. I appreciate your interest and hope you live a beautiful, meaningful life – whatever that may look like for you.

PS. If you feel like writing me – go ahead. I’d love to hear from real people with real hearts.

I was two times with 14 and 21 years in the USA, Bridgewater (New Jersey) for three weeks.
Many years later I was 3 times in Poland (after felt 1000 times again), in Gubin and Warszawa/Warschau, because of a German-Polish Project "German-Polish Youth Office"

At the moment, I unfortunately don’t really have any hobbies — although that’s not entirely true either. My self-employment is both my hobby and my work, because I’ve discovered how much joy I find in capturing images and preserving moments for eternity.
But even that isn’t the whole truth. I spend a lot of time working on myself, and I’ve realized that if I want to achieve something in life, help people, and see the world as it truly is, I first need to truly get to know myself.
So I decided to begin Shaolin training, and I’m deeply grateful to all the people and my masters who are accompanying me on this journey.
Amitofu 🙏

I listen ... Pop & Charts, Radio Music and Soundtracks from movie or games.

This in my head :)

Nonfiction

Be yourself.