There are times when God breaks the branch you thought would shelter you forever.

Not to bring you down.

But so you know that true shelter lies only under His sky.

Know that humans are but shadows in the evening.

They are beautiful to accompany you while the light is still there, but they fade when the sun is no longer high.

Not because shadows betray you, but because night must come, so you learn that loving light must come from its source, not from its reflection.

Loss is sometimes like rain in a dry season.

It makes you shiver, but it grows new life from the soil of your soul.

So is your loss. Perhaps that's where the seeds of your destiny are sown, until one day you will understand that what is gone is not lost.
It is simply returned to its owner.

So don't cry for what is gone, even if it doesn't return.

Because life isn't about loss, but how you must keep moving forward, even when something has slipped from your grasp.

Because in reality, those who leave are only those who are destined to stop by, while you still have tomorrow to write a new story with Allah who never leaves you....✍️

“Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Improve your garden, and the butterflies will come.”

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"The world is but a shadow of dusk on the sand. Beautiful for a moment, then it vanishes without a trace. So do not chase the fleeting light, for beyond it lies a long night that awaits mercilessly."

"So live, don't be like cotton floating in the air, light but directionless. Be like a root that penetrates the earth, calm, hidden, but strong enough to withstand the storms of life."

"Know...death is closer than the strap of your sandals. It is not a dark shadow, but a door of light that opens to souls cleansed from the world. It comes without knocking, bringing serenity to those who are ready, and shock to those who forget to prepare."

"And whatever happens in your life, remember every storm that comes is not meant to destroy, but to teach you how to take shelter under the love of your Lord. Every loss is not the end of everything, but rather God's way of clearing your path from that which should not remain. So do not grieve, for every pain is accompanied by a gentle promise from heaven: that God never leaves you, even the moment you feel lost."

In this noisy world, solitude is often seen as something sad. People who are alone are often misunderstood: as if they are lonely, socially unfit, or depressed. However, solitude isn't always about loss. Sometimes it's about finding yourself, your direction in life, and the peace you've lost.

Solitude is a silent space, but it's where the heart can breathe again. Because in silence, you finally have the opportunity to hear something that's often ignored: your own voice. Here are some reasons why solitude can be a healing space that nothing can replace.

1. In solitude, you can finally hear yourself

When life gets too busy, your inner voice is often drowned out by the noise of the world. You're busy fulfilling others' expectations, busy proving yourself, that you forget to ask yourself: "Where am I really going?"

Solitude forces you to stop and listen. From that silence, you begin to realize the little things: what you truly want, who makes you feel at peace, and what you should let go of. Silence isn't the enemy—it's a space for reflection that helps you get back on track.

2. Solitude provides distance from the wound

When your heart is hurting, too much outside noise can exacerbate the pain. Unsolicited advice, hurtful comments, even attention that feels fake can add to the burden. But when you're alone, you have the opportunity to process everything without distraction.

Distance from the crowd allows you to see the wound more clearly—not to forget, but to understand. You learn that some things can't be fixed, only accepted. And that acceptance grows in the quiet space you give yourself.

3. In your alone time, you learn to build strength from within

You may have been accustomed to relying on the presence of others to feel valuable. But solitude teaches you that true peace doesn't come from external validation, but from your ability to soothe yourself.

At this point, you begin to learn to be at peace: enjoying coffee alone without feeling awkward, walking without looking for someone to talk to, even crying without feeling weak. These are signs that you're starting to become strong. Because a person who can stand alone won't easily fall when the world turns away.

4. Solitude Restores Lost Energy

Social life, no matter how beautiful, still drains energy. As you continue to pay attention, listen, and adapt, a part of you slowly drains. Solitude becomes a kind of "recharger" for the soul.

When you're alone, you don't have to play a role. There are no masks, no demands. You can truly be your most honest self, without the pressure to appear strong. And from that honesty, energy slowly flows back.

5. In solitude, you learn to love without dependence

Solitude teaches you how to love maturely. You begin to understand that love isn't about always being together, but about respecting each other's space and growth.

From solitude, you learn that loss isn't the end of love, but rather another form of courage

There are times when sorrow falls like rain without pause, but time always knows when to lift the clouds.

So it is with sorrow—it comes only to teach resilience.
Happiness doesn't stay; it's just a guest that brings light and then departs.

Because true happiness lies in a heart that is content with destiny. So, when sorrow comes, say: "I knew you would go."

When happiness arrives, whisper: "I knew you wouldn't be long."
" There, the heart learns to live between two things: patience in loss, and gratitude.

The Secret Wisdom Behind Wounds.

Wounds teach the meaning of submission.
When God wants to elevate you, He will humble you before the world.

Sometimes wisdom doesn't come from victory, but from defeat, which makes you prostrate.
Wounds teach humans to stop grasping,
and begin to surrender everything to God.
Wounds are a mirror of the self.
When wounds come, they break the mirror of your arrogance.
You will see who you truly are.
Not the mask you wear, but the heart that has been hiding from the truth.

Wounds erase arrogance.
When life tears at your arrogance, don't be angry, for that is the beginning of wisdom.
Because a heart that has been broken no longer dares to exalt itself before its Creator.

Wounds foster prayer.
A wounded person speaks more often with God than with other people, and amidst their tears, seeds of wisdom grow: that there is no return but to Him, Allah.

So don't be too quick to hide wounds, for sometimes it is there that God writes the most beautiful wisdom.

Wounds don't always mean loss; sometimes they're the path back to wisdom.

#FreePalestine.

إذا طرق الحب بابك لا تفتحه بسرعة، لأن هناك اشخاص كالأطفال، يطرقون بابك ويهربون.

Jika ada sebuah cinta yang mengetuk pintu (hati)mu, maka jangan serta merta kau buka pintu hatimu (untuk menerima cintanya), karena diluar sana terdapat orang yang seperti anak kecil, mereka hanya mengetuk pintu, lalu mereka lari.

Kalam Sayyidi Al-Habib Ali bin Alwi bin Imam Kulli A'rif wa Wali Al Habib Ali bin Muhammad Al Habsyi.

First love teaches us how to tremble, but true love teaches us how to endure. One burns, the other heals. And between the two, we learn: love isn't about who comes first, but who makes you never want to leave.

Happiness often makes us lulled, while difficulties secretly forge our maturity. Life is not just about what feels good or painful, but about how we understand the meaning behind each feeling. Because feelings are just waves, and behind them there is a sea of ​​meaning waiting to be dived into by a patient and conscious soul.

Bismillah....
I choose not to love anyone...
until the time when my heart falls on him who gives his whole heart to Allah.
there will be the best time according to Allah. Only Allah can open this heart. Because Allah is the holder of the heart.

يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِي عَلَى دِينِكَ

ooh,, Allah, please guard this heart and mind not to disobey You.