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alifia-zahra   

Zahra, 31 y.o.
Sidoarjo, Indonesia [Current City & Hometown]

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Friends
Language practice

Education

Bachelor's degree

Occupation

freelance

Relationship status

Single


Joined 9 years ago, profile updated 4 years ago.

Displaying posts 1 to 10 of 165.
Reply - Conversation - Oct 2
Emotions are like clouds.

They come and go. Sometimes clear, sometimes dark, sometimes stormy.

A weak mind believes itself to be a cloud.
When dark clouds come, its world darkens.
When storms come, it crumbles.
A strong mind knows itself to be the sky.
Vast, limitless, and always there beyond the clouds.

It doesn't try to chase the clouds away.
It simply watches them pass by, without being swept away by their current.

It allows itself to feel anger, without becoming angry.
It allows itself to feel sadness, without becoming miserable.
Mental strength isn't the ability to not feel.
It's the ability to not be controlled by what you feel.
Reply - Conversation - Oct 1
When your heart is broken, don't be too quick to accuse the universe of cruelty. Perhaps that's God's way of forging the steel within you. For only through pain do humans learn to stand taller, look deeper, and walk further toward heights they never imagined. God breaks your heart because he wants to strengthen you to rise in status, not because he wants to bring you down or demean you.
Reply - Conversation - Sep 29
I used to think that being intelligent meant having a wealth of knowledge and a high academic grade.

But life has taught me that being intelligent is the ability to understand depth, which gives birth to wisdom.

Being intelligent means being able to overcome life's problems, understand life, and fulfill the role God has given you to the best of your ability...

Good morning. have a nice day
Reply - Conversation - Sep 29
Pernikahan tanpa ilmu hanya akan berbuah kompetisi sengit: antara dominasi logika kaum adam melawan dominasi perasaan kaum hawa. kompetisi sengit itu akn berujung bom waktu yg mampu meledak kapan saja
Reply - Conversation - Sep 28
The most painful thing in this world isn’t heartbreak, tears, or loss… it’s Istidraaj.

That’s when Allah blesses someone with wealth, ease, and answered du’as… but their heart keeps sinning. Life feels ‘perfect,’ yet it’s a warning. Ya Allah, protect us.

The Qur’an warns: “And We gave them enjoyment for a little; then We will drive them to severe punishment.”.
(Al-A’raf 7:182)
Reply - Conversation - Sep 26
❝ Believe that all of God's destiny is good. If we feel that there is something that is bad, just remember, it is not destiny that is bad, but our perspective that has not reached the point of seeing the wisdom behind that destiny. ❞
Reply - Conversation - Sep 24
🍂Loss is God's Love Language

Loss is a gentle whisper from heaven,
that your grip isn't always tight.
What you thought was truly yours,
is actually just a gift that must be returned.

God doesn't take to hurt,
He merely guides the heart to realize,
that what is fleeting is merely a worldly illusion,
while what is eternal is only God's pleasure.

Tears are not a sign of weakness,
but a way to cleanse the soul
from attachment.

Because in every pain you feel,
there lies a beautiful promise, a grace beyond loss.

Remember His words,
"Everything on earth will perish,
but the Face of your Lord, the Possessor of Greatness and Glory, remains eternal." (QS. Ar-Rahman: 26–27)

So let go of what has gone with an open heart,
because in the sight of God, nothing is
truly lost.
What's slipping from your grasp,
actually being embraced by the true Owner,
and later, if Allah wills,
will be replaced with something more beautiful
and eternal...
Reply - Conversation - Sep 22
BEFORE LOVE BECAME A NAME

At first, I didn't really know how to say your name in prayer without feeling like I was asking for something that wasn't mine.
Because love, perhaps, isn't about possession. But about how the heart chooses to stay, even when it has a thousand reasons to leave.

I once thought that loving meant keeping someone by your side. But the more I learned, staying doesn't necessarily mean staying. And staying doesn't necessarily mean forever.

I began to understand that not all feelings need to be won.
Sometimes, love just needs to be recognized, appreciated, and then slowly let go, like the morning dew that never asks the sun why it has to disappear when the light comes.

There are days when I feel content just knowing you're okay.
And on days that are quieter than usual, I've learned that praying for you is the most sincere form of caring, without having to take space in your life.

The love I've learned lately isn't about who lasts the longest,
but who is most honest in growing you, even if they end up not being included in that growth.

Sincerity, it turns out, doesn't mean not feeling pain. It's about how we choose not to hurt back.
And willingness isn't about giving up. It's about opening the door and waiting at the threshold, hoping that if you return, let it be because your heart chooses to return, not because the world is too cruel out there.

God loves me in a silence full of signs.
God loves you too, in a way I may never know.
So let me love you, without always having to be understood.
Because complete love isn't one that needs to be explained,
but one that is simply felt, then quietly surrendered back to Him.
Reply - Conversation - Sep 21
🍂Loss Is His Love Language

Loss is a gentle whisper from heaven,
that your grip isn't always tight.
What you thought was truly yours,
is actually just a gift that must be returned.

God doesn't take to hurt,
He merely guides the heart to realize,
that what is fleeting is merely a worldly illusion,
while what is eternal is only God's pleasure.

Tears are not a sign of weakness,
but a way to cleanse the soul
from attachment.

Because in every pain you feel,
there lies a beautiful promise, a grace behind the loss.

Remember His words,
"Everything on earth will perish,
but the Face of your Lord, the Possessor of Greatness and Glory, remains eternal." (QS. Ar-Rahman: 26–27)

So let go of what has gone with an open heart,
because in the sight of God, nothing is
truly lost.
What's slipping from your grasp,
actually being embraced by the true Owner,
and later, if Allah wills,
will be replaced with something more beautiful
and eternal...

✍️Lombok, 09-17-2025...11.30 am
Reply - Conversation - Sep 21
🍂Loss Is His Love Language

Loss is a gentle whisper from heaven,
that your grip isn't always tight.
What you thought was truly yours,
is actually just a gift that must be returned.

God doesn't take to hurt,
He merely guides the heart to realize,
that what is fleeting is merely a worldly illusion,
while what is eternal is only God's pleasure.

Tears are not a sign of weakness,
but a way to cleanse the soul
from attachment.

Because in every pain you feel,
there lies a beautiful promise, a grace behind the loss.

Remember His words,
"Everything on earth will perish,
but the Face of your Lord, the Possessor of Greatness and Glory, remains eternal." (QS. Ar-Rahman: 26–27)

So let go of what has gone with an open heart,
because in the sight of God, nothing is
truly lost.
What's slipping from your grasp,
actually being embraced by the true Owner,
and later, if Allah wills,
will be replaced with something more beautiful
and eternal...

✍️
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