Okay, I didn't feel like putting all of this into my profile, so I'm going to say it in this note. I sincerely appreciate those of you that took the time to actually read this. I have some requests that I'd like respected. If you can't honor these requests, I'd be happy to block you. I'm sorry that it has to be that way. But the constant bombarding is getting out of hand.

First of all, please stop adding me if we haven't talked. I don't want to be "friends" with someone I don't even know. There's a 'bookmark' button for a reason. If you think I'm interesting and simply plan on talking to me later, bookmark me and let me know that you've done it. That way, we might actually be able to get to know each other. If you friend request me and we've never talked, I'll simply decline your invite.

Second of all, if you message me and I don't message you back, please don't send me another message. I've gotten multiple messages from individual people and chances are good that if I haven't responded, I haven't had time to read them. If I don't answer you at all, then I clearly don't want to talk. Please don't take that offensively. I'm sure there are plenty of other people out there that would love to talk to you. I just don't happen to be one of them. I talk to people whose profiles interest me or whose messages have caught my eye. "hiii how r u" doesn't make for interesting conversation.

Thirdly, I would really appreciate discussing something other than my appearance. I'm glad you think I'm "hot" or "sexy" or whatever. Honestly. I'm flattered and I'll graciously accept your compliments. But it's not a very good conversation starter and I'll quickly tire of being told how attractive you think I am. I don't think I'm "sexy or "hot". I'm not fishing for compliments. I appreciate the fact that you do. Telling me once in a while is one thing. But if you keep doing it, it will honestly just end up making me feel awkward.

On that same note, please stop asking me to have cyber sex with you. Stop asking me to marry you. Stop telling me how badly you "want me" or how "turned on" you are when you look at my pictures. It grosses me out. A lot. I'm not turned on by your picture. I don't want to marry you. I don't want to have a pseudo-physical relationship with you. I'm not into that stuff. If you can't have a conversation with me without discussing your perverted thoughts, kindly take your hormones elsewhere. There are plenty of free porn sites on the internet that welcome those of you looking to "get off" to photos of people you don't really know.

Also, please stop messaging me if you're over 25 or if you don't have a picture. The only thing worse than being sexually harassed via internet is being sexually harassed via internet by 48 year old men. Or by people without a picture. I'm 18 years old. I don't care how rich you are or how sexy you are or how much you think women want you. I don't. I like guys that are around my age. In case you don't know what I consider "around my age" 17-24 is reasonable. 16 is a bit too young and 25 is definitely pushing it for me. So please stop telling me that "20 years difference is a nice round number." It's not. (Side note: If I contact you first, it's because I think you're interesting enough to disregard the age difference.)

Also: I don't expect your English to be perfect (if you're not from America) but please, if you don't know any English and you're just trying to hit on me; save your energy. It's annoying to get a message that takes 10 minutes to understand, only to have it say something like "you're so hot and you turn me on." Though we've (broadly) covered this in a previous paragraph, I felt that this specific issue needed to be addressed.

I'm honestly not trying to come off as a complete bitch. But I'd really like to get to know people that have more than just a one-track mind. I don't think I'm being unreasonable. Just take the time to read my profile (and this note) before you waste your time and mine.

Thank you.