To the women of interpals
                                    Most of whom will never read this.

STOP UPLOADING BIKINI PICS.

If you think it will make you feel good when 50 guys comment on it - All they are saying is I'd hit that.
If you get mail from men wanting to be your friend, its more likely they are interested in your body and lack of clothes then you.

We all have bikini pics. A lot of us look great in them. But your profile pictures are the first impression you give. If you are barely dressed you are saying IM CHEAP. Don't get me wrong. Upload your naked pics even if you so like. this isnt what my point is. I don't believe we should hide our bodies. I just think resorting to whoreing yourself on your profile rather then writing an interesting one isn't saying alot for our gender.

Shove ur bikini pics in holiday albulms. Not in your profile photo's. Friends on the site and those interested in you are genrally the ones who will trawl your photo albulms. Those who click a thumbnail photo and then sift through profile pics without reading the profile rarely do.

I wont reply to women with bikini pics. (Or finger-in-mouth pics) because it shows she does not respect herself. So how can I respect her? If I don't respect her, we cannot be friends.

It seems 50% of profiles on here have at least one of the above. Do women not have personalities anymore, do you not have anything interesting to say about yourself? Is this the only way you can think of attracting interest? Your photo's blend in with the other bikini's... we all free to select the hottest....

Screw that.