I had to suffer a lot in life and so am looking for someone with a lot of understanding, someone caring, someone with a deep soul. Someone with good values. Someone who tries to be not superficial and ignorant. Someone who has always felt lonely and never had someone who shared his dreams.

I'm gay, so please consider that when writing. Am also a very depressed and pessimistic person due to my experiences.

I don't use a smartphone and am also not too fond of instant messaging or social media. I don't do video chat or audio messaging and for meeting with someone I need to know him very well. Also, please be patient, if I don't respond immediately, it does not mean I ignore you.

Philosophy, Theology, History, Politics, Psychology, Art, Literature, Movies, Music, Sports (mostly watching)

As for classic music mostly Baroque, especially Händel operas, but also Mozart, Tchaikovsky, Puccini...

Elvis Presley, Frank Sinatra, Ricky Nelson, Jacques Brel, Edith Piaf, Marlene Dietrich, Hildegard Knef, The Beatles, ABBA, Bee Gees, Simon & Garfunkel, Katie Melua, Keane, Lana del Rey...

Les Roseaux Sauvages, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, The Night of the Hunter, 12 Angry Men, Psycho, The Third Man, East of Eden, Rebels without a Cause, Il Vangelo secondo Matteo, Los Olvidados, The Straight Story, Aguirre, Vozvrashchenie, Death on the Nile, Murder on the Orient Express, Murder She Said, Witness for the Prosecution, Judgement at Nuremberg, The General, Ben-Hur: A Tale of the Christ, Sunrise, Beautiful Thing, Maurice, Sommersturm, Mysterious Skin, A Single Man, Ahlat Agaci, Call Me By Your Name...

Home Improvement, Still Standing, The Sopranos, Monk (having OCD myself), The Big Bang Theory, United States of Tara...

The Catcher in the Rye, The Picture of Dorian Gray, Faust, Buddenbrooks, Unterm Rad, Stiller, Die Verwandlung, Gengangere, La Divina Commedia, East of Eden, The Grapes of Wrath, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Equus, Kleiner Mann, was nun...

Barbarus hic ego sum, quia non intellegor ulli.
Ovid

Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing ever happened.
Winston Churchill

We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
Oscar Wilde.

On voit bien qu'avec le coeur, l'essentiel est invisible aux yeux.
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

If you are in a minority of one, the truth is still the truth.
Mahatma Gandhi

If you wish to understand others, you must intensify your own individualism.
Oscar Wilde

When you stand in front of me and look at me, what do you know of the griefs that are in me and what do I know of yours. And if I were to cast myself down before you and weep and tell you, what more would you know about me than you know about Hell when someone tells you it is hot and dreadful? For that reason alone we human beings ought to stand before one another as reverently, as reflectively, as lovingly, as we would before the entrance to Hell.
Franz Kafka

Nobody ever gets to know no body. We're all of us sentenced to a solitary confinement inside our own skins for life.
Tennessee Williams

Only who knows what longing is can know what I suffer.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Oh, you weak, beautiful people who give up with such grace. What you need is someone to take hold of you - gently, with love, and hand your life back to you.
Tennessee Williams

The one thing we can never get enough of is love. And the one thing we never give enough is love.
Henry Miller

Don't look forward to the day you stop suffering, because when it comes you'll know you're dead.
Tennessee Williams

To think what’s true, to feel what’s beautiful, to want what’s good: this is whereof the spirit recognizes the aim of the reasonable life.
Plato

Thou hast created us for Thyself, and our heart is not quiet until it rests in Thee.
Saint Augustine