I am only here for like minded. I am independent but not up for scams. If you would like to chat, male or female, just poke in and say hello. Best wishes.

PLEASE READ THIS CLOSELY:

Read this today and it fits so well:
I'll admit I am the problem. I'm the reason why I'm single.
I'm picky. I love being alone. I don't beg. I don't chase.
I'm not to be tamed. And I suck at texting back.
Maybe next year.




I am seeking good friends/penpals, (please, no one under the age of 35 and noone who is a Trump Supporter because, in my experience, they tend to insult and run, childish behavior that is just not appealing to me but is consistent with supporting Trump,,lol)

I love to laugh, smile, bake, sing, dance, read, watch tv and film, and write. I write everything from poetry and lyrics to screenplays. My dream trip is a visit to Italy.


favorite musical artist: Robin Thicke  and Prince

favorite musical genre: R and B

favorite comedians: Jon Mulaney, Kevin Hart, Dave Chapelle, Nate Bargatze

favorite food: Italian and Seafood
favorite color: purple
favorite season: Fall
religion: Christian

R and B, and Rock and Roll. And I am entranced by Nicotine Dolls right now. Something about the vibe and grit of the lead singer's voice...

I love soulful R and B , especially songs with messages of commitment and love,

like Robin Thicke's  Can You Believe:


Nothing can make you high
Or put fire in your eyes
Or give you a chance to fly
When you need the wings
When all that youve got is doubt
And nothing can stop you from feeling down
But oh I know, I know exactly how you feel

But can you believe now
When youre on your knees now
Begging and pleading now
Can you believe
When all that youve got is doubt
And no one to pull you out
When your heart is slowin down
Can you believe

If you can believe in love, u must first believe in real friendships...

Zoolander, The Wiz, Mission Impossible, Must Love Dogs, anything with Ben Affleck, Something New,

Favorite lines from a movie:

“So you’ll get your kicks by exerting your will over me.”
“It’s about gaining your trust and your respect, so you’ll let me exert my will over you. I will gain a great deal of pleasure, joy, even in your submission. The more you submit, the greater my joy – it’s a very simple equation.”
“Okay, and what do I get out of this?”
He shrugs and looks almost apologetic.
“Me,” he says simply.”
― E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey

The Office,  Irrational, Found,  all things Law and Order, Abbott Elementary, Wil Trent, The Lincoln Lawyer

Old school:  Moonlighting with Bruce Willis, and The Cosby Show

Anything Stephen King or Dean Koontz, any mystery/suspense, religious material, sensual romance, or puzzle books

Favorite quote from a book: “I want to touch the parts of you no one else has touched. I want to own the piece of you that has yet to be discovered. So stop resisting. Let go. Let it happen.” David Hollan in Requested Surrender”

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Maya Angelou