ABOUT ME
PHILOSOPHY

Life is a great adventure and your own thoughts make your own reality

You’ve gotta start romanticizing your life. You gotta start believing that your morning commute is cute and fun, that every cup of coffee is the best you’ve ever had, that even the smallest and most mundane things are exciting and new. You have to, because that’s when you start truly living. That’s when you look forward to every day.


Interests
Nature, Art, Craft, Philosophy, spirituality, meditation, outdoor swimming  every morning, all seasons.

meditation traveling cycling hitchhiking
One Amazing Thing I’ve Done
World travel with hitchhiking and cycling

Countries I’ve Visited
Algeria, Bangladesh, Belgium, Burkina Faso, Canada, Central African Republic, Denmark, Egypt, England, France, Germany, Ghana, Greece, India, Indonesia, Israel, Luxembourg, Malaysia, Morocco, Myanmar, Nederland, Nepal, Niger, Portugal, Singapore, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, Togo, United States

Intimacy

The highest form of intimacy is being present with yourself and others from truth.
Showing and being yourself without playing a role, without adapting your behavior or words to what you feel the other person would like.
It has been quite a journey for me personally to get to this point and when it comes down to being honest with myself, ignoring my desires to be seen and accepted by others.
Sincere and honest, being there for myself and for the other. That to me is real intimacy.
Curious how you experience this

FOR WOMAN:
The foundation of a man’s desire for you is to access your portal of creation in order to realize his own dreams.

He cannot create without you.

He needs you.

But because he does not have to earn access to you, he does not value you.

The woman is the most abundant resource on the planet and control of the woman’s generative power and capacity is the sole purpose of patriarchy.

Women don’t just birth life, we birth consciousness and consciousness is what constructs reality.

We have a Divine responsibility to wield this power with deep awareness and ferocity.

Women get played, abused, abandoned and even killed because we don’t understand the magnitude of this power and move accordingly.

You must be ruthless with your time, energy, and love, conserving it only for those who have earned the right to access your magic.

Your life literally depends on it.

For the people pleasers, over givers, anxiously attached, and self proclaimed empaths who constantly attract users, manipulators and narcs, it’s time for you to become ruthlessly selfish with your precious life force.
and:

THE TOO MUCH WOMAN...
There she is... the Too Much Woman... The woman who
loves too much, feels too deeply, asks too often,
desires too much...
She takes up too much space, with her laughter, her curves, her honesty, her sexuality.
Her presence is as big as a tree, as immense as a mountain. Her energy occupies every corner of the room. In summary...she supposedly takes up too much space.
She causes irritation with her continuous need to want, to want too much. She desires much, she wants everything - too much happiness, too much alone-time, too much fun. And she will go through darkness, raging rivers and hell levees to get it. She risks everything to fulfill the desires of her heart and body. This makes her dangerous - she is dangerous....
There she goes, the Too Much Woman, she makes people think too much, makes them feel too much, swoon too much. She, with her pure words and a self-assurance you see in the way she carries herself. She, with the deep laugh from her belly, with her insatiable appetite and her propensity for fiery passion. All eyes are on her, thinking she's crazy....
Oh, that Too Much Woman.... Too loud, too vibrant, too positive, too honest, too emotional, too smart, too intense, too beautiful, too sweet, too complex, too sensitive, too wild, too intimidating, too successful, too fat, too slim, too powerful, too energetic, too political, too purposeful, too ambitious, too cheerful, too eager, too enthusiastic.... in short, too much.
She should really contain herself a bit, take a few steps back. Adjust...fall in line! Someone should put her back in a more respectable place. Someone should tell her what her place is....
But here I am...
The Too Much Woman, with my too tender heart and my too many emotions. A hedonist, feminist, pleasure-seeker, love-bringer.... I want much - justice, sincerity, spaciousness, ease, intimacy, respect, being seen, being understood, your undivided attention and that you keep your promises.... I have been called selfish because I love myself as I am. I have been called a witch because I know how to heal myself....
And yet...I stand...I want. I feel. I ask. I risk and I take up space. I must namely.
I must.
We, the Too Many Women have been threatened with extinction for centuries - people are so afraid of this woman, terrified of her great presence, of the way she lives and respects the truth of her feelings. We have tried to suffocate the Too Many Women - in our sisters, in our wives, in our daughters. And even now, even today, the "too much" woman is ashamed of her greatness, of her lack of composure, of her passionate nature.... And yet... she thrives. In my own world and before my own eyes, I am witnessing the rise and embrace of the Too Much Woman....
If you have ever been called "too much" or "overly emotional," you are probably a Too Much Woman. And if you are...I implore you to embrace all that you are - everything, really everything.... Of the depth as well as the breadth of your being; to not hold yourself back and never let yourself down, your passion, your purity, your greatness, your radiance....
Heal yourself.... Free yourself....
Forget everything you have heard - your excess is a gift; oh yes, you are someone who can heal, instigate, liberate and you get to the core very quickly. Don't be afraid of this gift and don't let anyone distance you from it. Your excess-ness is magical, is like medicine. It can change the world....
So please, dear powerful beautiful Too Much Woman: Marvel. Heal. Question. Seek. Desire. Move. Feel. Kiss. Speak, Free. Be yourself.
Make waves, spit out your flames, give us chills. Please stand up. We need you...

FOR MAN:

Are you a man who is aware?
Separated from the old beliefs from the dominant male energy?
Apart from needing a woman as an object of lust
Detached from needing a woman as a filler
Apart from needing a woman from not being able to be alone.
Apart from looking for a mother figure.
A man who can carry himself?
Who takes responsibility for his own pieces and his own life?
A man who really can and dare to go into the depths?
A man who can truly be a man for the conscious woman?
Growing together, balanced together.

I honor the sensitive and gentle men.
I honor the men who seek moderation and peace within themselves.
I honor the men poets, dreamers, magicians, writers, alchemists, artists, masters and angels.
I honor the men who love to dance and sing and make life a celebration.
I honor the men who embrace their wounded inner child, listen to her and truly cherish her.
I honor the men who heal and heal their own wounds, despite the pain.
I honor the men who emerge from the stars and remember the power of their wings.
I honor the men who refuse to be slaves, who let the power of their hearts speak.
I honor the men who know their intuition and use it as a compass.
I honor the men who share in freedom because they are free and know no other way of life.
I honor the men who protect the feminine energy, who know how to read the eyes of their loved ones and have no intention of changing her.
I honor the complete men who need nothing from outside because they already know everything is inside.
I honor the perfectly imperfect men, who find beauty in imperfection.
I honor the sensitive men who know how to receive and give love in balance.
I honor the men who listen and also speak, who live and let live.
I honor the men who experience sexuality as sacred because they know it is a beautiful gift.
I honor the men who can create the purest and most unimaginable alchemy.
I honor the men with clear feelings.
I honor the men who are accessible and present within themselves and to others.
I honor the men who walk barefoot and talk to plants, who make fire when they are cold.
I honor the men who are both tender and wild.
I honor the men with sincere eyes who see themselves and therefore love and respect all beings on earth.
I honor the magical men who beautify everything in their hallway, who make their lives art and that they are happy with their gifts.
I honor the men who know their wisdom and carry it out to bring light and love into the world.
I honor the mystical men who believe in themselves.
I honor men in their holiness and divinity.
I also honor myself.

Interests
Nature, Art, Craft, Philosophy, spirituality, meditation, outdoor swimming  every morning, all seasons.

meditation traveling cycling hitchhiking
One Amazing Thing I’ve Done
World travel with hitchhiking and cycling

“LOVE bridges the gap between heaven and earth.
True friends are mature, easygoing and natural. Their union knows no compulsion, no begging, no desire to change each other into something else.

There is no longer any interest in all the dramas and romances in which others are involved. That's not a loss. It is the birth of a higher, more loving quality that has arisen from the fullness of your experience. it is the birth of a truly unconditional love, which expects nothing and makes no demands.
First you have to meditate, be happy, then a lot of love will naturally arise. Then it is wonderful to be in company and also wonderful to be alone. Then it also becomes easy. You are not dependent on others and you are not making others dependent on you. Then it is always friendship, kindness. It never becomes a relationship, it is always a connection. You have a bond, but you don't make it a marriage. Marriages are born of fear, bonding is born of love.

You have a bond; as long as everything goes smoothly, you share with each other. And when you see that the time has come to leave because your paths part at this intersection, take your leave, deeply grateful for everything the other has done for you, for all the joys and all the pleasures and all the beautiful moments you shared with the other. shared. Without suffering, without pain, you simply part."

Osho



Virginia Satir
“I believe the greatest gift I can conceive of having from anyone is to be seen by them, heard by them, to be understood and touched by them. The greatest gift I can give is to see, hear, understand and to touch another person. When this is done I feel contact has been made.”

― Virginia Satir


Most of us do not want freedom inwardly, in the deep sense of that word, because it implies that we must stand completely alone, without a guide, without a system, without following any authority; and that requires enormous order within oneself. Most of us want to lean on somebody, and if it’s not a person then it’s an idea, a belief, a way of conduct, a pattern established by society or by some leader or so- called spiritual person...
A man who seeks truth has no authority of any kind, at any time, and this freedom from authority is one of the most difficult things for most of us to grasp, not only in the Western world but also in the East, because we think that somebody else will bring about order in our life—a savior, a master, a spiritual teacher—which is absolutely absurd. It is only through our own clarity, through our own investigation, awareness, attention, that we begin to learn all about ourselves; and out of that learning, out of that understanding of ourselves, come freedom and order.
— J. Krishnamurti