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Pull up a chair and lets chat a while...............

I have been here a while and have met quite a spectrum of characters.  I want to thank all the sincere folks who have become my TRUE FRIENDS - for being THEMSELVES. 

   LET IT BE KNOWN:

If it is your intention to play games - PLEASE keep it moving.  I would rather you NOT waste my time.



For those who I have yet to meet...........

Pull up a chair.   What would you like to drink?  So, what's on your mind?

REASON, SEASON, or LIFETIME...... it was nice to meet you!

Have a Wonderful Day !

Do not really have a main purpose for being on here but meeting new people is always fun and you never know what might happen.... I have a sense of humor the size of the Universe. so you will normally always catch me smiling, laughing or making someone smile or laugh. Sense of humor is very important along with the ability to hold down an intelligient conversation in the next breath and actually know what you are talking about. Versatility is key and just keep it real from the jump!!!! And please remember, you dont have to be in love but what you can do is possess a personality that someone could love

Too often we don't realize what we have until it's gone. Too often we're too stubborn to say, 'Sorry, I was wrong.' Too often it seems we hurt the ones closest to our hearts, and we let the most foolish things tear us apart


And, of course, people asked me all the time, They say to me "what is the secret to success?"  The first rule is: TRUST YOURSELf but what is most important is that you have to dig deep down,dig deep down and ask yourselves who do you want to be? not what but WHO? And i'm talking about not what your parents and teachers want you to be, but YOU! i'm talking about figuring out for yourselves what makes you HAPPY no matter how crazy it may sound to other people. So rule number one is, of course, trust yourself no matter how and what anyone else thinks. And of course rule number two is: BREAK THE RULES, we have so many rules in life about everything. I say break the rules. Not the law but break the rules. It is impossible to be a maverick or a true original  if you're too well behaved and don't want to break the rules. You have to think outside the box. That's what i believe ater all, what's the point of being on this earth if all you want to do is be liked by evryone and  avoid trouble? The only way that i ever got anyplace was by breaking some of the rules. which of course, brings me to the rule number three: DO'NT BE AFRAID TO FAIL! Anything i've ever attempted, i was always willing to fail. You can't always win but don't be afraid of making decisions. You can be paralyzed by fear of failure  or you will never push yourself, you keep pushing because you're believing in yourself  and in your vision and you know that is the right thing to do and success will come. so don't be afraid to fail! which brings me to rule number four,which is: DONT LISTEN TO THE NAYSAYERS, How many time have you heard that you can't do this, you can't do that and it;s never been done before? I love it when someone say that no one has never done this before,because then when i do it that means that i'm the first one that had done it, so pay no attention to the people that say it can't be done. I always listen to myself and say : "yes, you can."  And that brings me to  the rule number five, which is the most important rule of all: WORK YOUR BUTT OFF! i always believed leaving no stone unturned. MUHAMMED ALI. one of my great heroes, had a great line in the '70s When he was aked, " How many sit-ups do you do? He said," i don't count my sit-ups. I only start counting when it starts hurting. When i feel pain, that's when i start counting because that's when it really "counts That's what makes you a champion  And that's the way it is with everything. NO PAIN NO GAIN!!! And let me tell you, it is important to have fun in life, of course. But when you're out there partying, horsing around, Someone out there at the same time is working hard, Someone is getting smarter and someone is winning .Just remember that. But if you want to win, there is absolutely  no way around. Hard,hard work. None of my rules, by the way, of success will work unless you do. I've always figured out there is 24 hours a day.you sleep six hours and have 18 hours left. Now, i know there are some of you out there that say well, wait a minute, i slep eight hours or nine hours. Well, then just sleep faster, i would recommend. Just remember, you can't climb the ladder of success with your two hands in the pockets. Which takes me to rule number six, which is a very important rule: IT'S ABOUT GIVING BACK! whatever path that you take in your lives, you must always find time to give something back. Give something back to the community,give something back to your state or to your country. Let me tell you something, reaching out and helping people will bring you more satisfaction than anything else you have ever done. Remember those six rules: 1. Trust yourself 2. Break some rules 3.Don't  be afraid to fail 4. Ignore the naysayers 5. Work like hell 6.Give something back